6 Things I Learned about Weight Loss While I Was Sick With the Flu

If you know me, you know I don’t nap. Not even when I have the opportunity. Not even when the bed is laid out beautifully before me, soothing music is being played and I have all the time in the world (I know, I know, shameless). Once, I took a personality test that described me as an “Achiever” or someone who doesn’t really feel they’ve had a good day unless they’ve crossed something (hopefully multiple things) off of their to-do list.Image

That’s me to a “T.”

 Which is why when I found myself wanting to nap instead of getting ready for bootcamp, I knew something wasn’t right and sure enough, a few days later, I was sitting on the doctor’s table in agony.

“Do you know what you have?”

“Death?”

“Close. You’ve got the flu.”

Ugh. It’s been going around.

Which means I haven’t been crossing things off of my to-do list and feeling smug and accomplished like I usually do. Coming down with the flu has been all about lessons for me. I couldn’t work out, I was exhausted, my creativity and energy were non-existent and all I wanted to (could do) was nap.

I had to adjust. I had to learn… I had to stop compulsively crossing things off my to do list. Here are the 10 things I learned about weight loss while I was sick with the flu:

  1. Sometimes it is just not possible to give a ______ (sorta).  –  Did that make sense? Let me explain. I seriously admire people who can genuinely not give a f*ck. I am not one of those people. I think one of the most difficult lessons for me was learning to let things go (having the ability to give a f*ck taken away from me).  I had to stop myself from listening to that nagging voice in the back of my mind that was screaming “YOU MISSED BOOTCAMP FOR A WHOLE WEEK!”
  2. Doing “my best” is completely relative from day to day. Part of ignoring my inner nagger meant realizing that some days, “my best” is getting out of bed, some days it’s remembering to write down what I ate, and other days I’m running and jumping and eating all sorts of leafy green goodness. Best is best. Period.
  3. And speaking of best…. It’s best to avoid the scale while sick. Drinking water really does help you lose of ton of weight quickly (hello 10lbs in one week!!), but it’s just as easy to put the water weight back on when you’re well again…. While sick just avoid the scale. Rollercoasters are for when you’re feeling better.
  4. Sugar free, Whole Fruit Popsicles are excellent. Plus, they don’t have that many calories and make your throat feel excellent. I’m not sure how many calories cough drops or cough syrup has… hmmm…..
  5. Recovery won’t rush just cause you want it to. Exercise before your lungs (and body) are really ready is seriously painful and should be avoided despite how badly you want to go outside and how nice the weather has become.  I tried to rush my recovering by taking an innocent (hour long) walk with my dog. It hurt and I probably would’ve been best served by staying in bed.
  6. It is possible to longingly miss and fantasize about exercise and the gym. I swear. It really is. ;)

What’s the hardest thing about being sick for you?

Weight Loss and Measuring Ourselves Differently

I gained a pound this week.

Which made me want to throw myself off of something.

Yeah, yeah. I’ve head it all before, “muscle weighs more than fat,” “you’ve been working out a lot lately,” “maybe your body is changing……..” I think I may be losing my ability to look on this with anything but frustration and irritation.

I’m in a weight loss rut and it’s driving me insane. It’s frustrating, it’s sad, it’s embarrassing and I wish I could push past it. For months, I’ve been dancing around the same weight: A pound up, 2 pounds down, 5 pounds up, 3 pounds down.

It’s maddening.

I’ve tried:

  • Switching my diet from Weight Watchers to Paleo.
  • Switching back when I gained weight and realized “no grains” in my mind meant focusing completely on what I couldn’t have instead of enjoying what I could have.
  • Exercising more, in different ways, and at different times of the day
  • Joining bootcamp
  • Blogging
  • Asking questions
  • Taking advice
  • Being patient
  • Etc. etc. etc.

I’m still doing the pound up, pound down dance.

….And I was thinking about it in bootcamp the other day: My 6 weeks of Bootcamp are about to expire and I won’t be able to continue until I find a little more work. I’m really, really bummed because they have been one of the best experiences of my life. I am a lot stronger than I was 6 weeks ago. In fact,

  • I FEEL strong. I mean, really strong. Mentally and physically.
  • I’m more confident around weights, weight-rooms and trainers
  • I have greater endurance.
  • I’ve discovered I can push myself.
  • I think I look thinner despite my weight not changing much.
  • I have never felt better in terms of my health and fitness.
  • I have more energy.

And that’s just a start! I’ve had all sorts of positives along my journey, but I let them go out the window when I step on the scale.

I shouldn’t be doing that and neither should you.

If you’re just starting a weight loss journey (or even if you’re in the middle of one!), I highly recommend you find numerous alternative ways to measure your progress:

  • Take your measurements
  • Calculate your BMI
  • Find out your body fat percentage
  • Take lots of pictures (and take the time to look at old ones)
  • Write about what you’re thinking/experiencing and revisit old journal entries and reflections
  • Revisit your goals and highlight your victories
  • Examine what you’re doing now that is different from before
  • Ask yourself how you have you changed as a person

Let’s start measuring ourselves differently by looking at the little things that make up the big picture and stop beating ourselves over the head with a number on a scale.

What’s your favorite way to measure yourself (that has nothing to do with your weight)?

70 Things I’ve Done to Lose 70lbs

70.

I’ve lost 70 pounds.

Yes, this is definitely something to celebrate and be proud of… BUT I’ve been hovering around the same number for months. The dreaded plateau.

Instead of admitting defeat (it’s so not my style), I’ve decided to write a list of 70 things I’ve done to lose 70lbs. I’m hoping this will motivate me to keep going… and maybe even inspire others on their journeys. I’m also hoping you, dear reader, will share ideas and other techniques I can try to overcome my plateau.

  1. Lived by the mantra that everything I did must be part of a lifestyle change, not a DIET.
  2. Kept a food journal.
  3. Learned how to shop for, and identify, healthy foods (hint: the perimeter of the store is your friend).
  4. Took things at my own pace but periodically PUSHED myself to try something new/harder.
  5. Learned the difference between whole and processed foods.
  6. Joined a gym.
  7. Quit the gym.
  8. Learned how to exercise with no gym and little equipment.
  9. Started going to a CrossFit bootcamp.
  10. Visited a doctor.
  11. Did not beat myself up over times I failed (I call these dropped eggs)
  12. Visited a nutritionist.
  13. Set monthly goals and checked up on them each and every month.
  14. Set long term (yearly) goals.
  15. Learned HOW to set goals.
  16. Took my measurements
  17. Had my body fat % calculated (twice)
  18. Planned ahead (meals, exercise, holidays, trips – everything).
  19. Established a workout routine and schedule and STUCK to it.
  20. Fell in love with yoga.
  21. Tried paleo. Read Mark Sisson’s book.
  22. Tried new and FUN ways to exercise:  capoeira, batting cages, kayaking, CrossFit etc.
  23. Tried exercise that intimidated me.
  24. Fell in love with asparagus and zucchini.
  25. Started a blog.
  26. Set a goal to drink at least 48 oz of water a day.
  27. Asked friends and family for advice.
  28. Talked to EVERYONE who would listen about weight loss, health and fitness.
  29. Purchased healthy cookbooks and tried new recipes.
  30. Started a Facebook page to share my blog posts, victories, quotes and questions.
  31. Tried a low-carb diet and realized it wasn’t for me.
  32. Joined Weight Watchers Online.
  33. Realized that lots of people have advice, but I have to do what works for me and my body.
  34. Decided I’d try the latest diets and trends but only stuck to the ones that worked and made sense for me.
  35. Bought new shoes.
  36. Gave myself breaks (loosely following the 80/20 rule).
  37. Listened to other people’s weight loss stories.
  38. Joined My Yoga Online
  39. Installed CardioTrainer on my smart phone.
  40. Celebrated small victories.
  41. Celebrated huge victories.
  42. Made plans for when I would be doing something out of my routine: travel, parties, weddings, etc.
  43. Weighed myself once a week (no more, no less).
  44. Started reading books, blogs, fitness magazines and anything I could get my hands on….. (I still have a list of books I NEED to read).
  45. Ran my first and SECOND 5k.
  46. Ran a mile for the first time ever.
  47. Committed to train for and run a half-marathon this year (still need to register!).
  48. Rewarded myself with things other than food.
  49. Went on hikes with my husband.
  50. Got a dog who needs lots of exercise and attention.
  51. Realized and admitted to myself that I am an emotional eater.
  52. Purchased fitness DVDS (Also begged and borrowed a few!)
  53. Set a goal to get my heart beating FIRST thing in the morning for a minimum of 20 minutes
  54. Sought inspiration in everything I read, listened to and watched…  Shared what inspired me with others!
  55. Watched TV shows like Biggest Loser and Heavy.
  56. Found a fitness friend who I can report to….
  57. Adopted the mindset of an athlete.
  58. Identified my trigger foods.
  59. Made fitness and health a priority.
  60. Planned fitness and health expenses into my budget.
  61. Bought new clothes!
  62. Opened up to sharing my experiences.
  63. Faced many, many fears and overcame them.
  64. Encouraged my friends and family to get healthy too.
  65. Took advantage of health and fitness deals on Groupon.
  66. Followed lots of health and fitness folks on Twitter
  67. Followed lots of health and fitness folks on Tumblr
  68. Followed lots of health and fitness folks on Pinterest
  69. Crammed my RSS Reader full of awesome blogs.
  70. Took advantage of my job’s flexibility to eat well and exercise.

There it is. My list. 70 things I’ve done to get where I am today. I’m hoping this list might help others on their journey, but I do have slightly ulterior motives. Do you see something I’m missing? Something I should change? Have feedback? I’d love to hear it.

How should I get over this plateau?